Apologies gents, I shall stick here..
As for kernel/rom combo, i have been trying various ones but i shall try ICS wolfmod with the kernel and report back. I managed to flash a stock 2.2.2 froyo but remember reading something about the wireless not working for some people after 2.0 but I guess this would have been resolved now..
I tried following the disaster recovery post but when it got to the nvflash part (with the .bat) I was lost as those files were not included, and i couldn't find them in related posts, I don't want to sound like a n00b as i am relatively experienced in flashing etc, but I just couldnt find the related files/folders.
As for the Wifi networks, I find it so odd that my iPhone finds a number of networks (the neighbours on BT, mine on Virgin and an iPhone hotspot) yet the Hannspad doesnt find any, it does however very occasionally pick up the weakest of signal from other networks but then loses them (they are the lowest mark on the wifi strength) even when I'm sitting next to the router it fails to register at all.
I shall have another go but its the second day of me tinkering with it, but if you could shed any light onto the nvflash part that would be greatly apprecited!